Anonymous #1 1d

I never said he was a good friend

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Anonymous OP 1d

You said he is your bfs best friend

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah they’re best friends. But your best friend can still act like a bad friend

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Anonymous OP 1d

True,,, hpw did it happen anyway?

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Anonymous #1 1d

It wasn’t the first time. Got in an fight with my bf and I decided to go over to his best friends apartment so he could make me feel better again

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Anonymous #2 1d

🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 1d

No shit… so u 2 have hooked up before? Is the sex better with him? Is he bigger than your bf?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yes we’ve hooked up before. The sex is a million times better. I think they’re the same size but never actually measured

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Anonymous OP 1d

And your actual bf has no clue?

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Anonymous #1 1d

He’s accused me of cheating before but it’s been for dumb reasons. Like one time I shared a cigarette with another guy and he called that cheating. Or another time I went skydiving and my instructor was a man and he also called that cheating. But I don’t think my bf has a clue about the actual cheating I’ve been doing

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ok… i as a true best friend could not keep that secret ngl

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Anonymous #1 1d

Well he’s kept the secret for like 6 months

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Anonymous OP 1d

How did it actually start? Were u already together with your bf at that time?

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah I was already with my bf but the very first time we hooked up was technically when my bf and I were broken up. The break only lasted like 48 hours tho. But then a couple weeks after that him and I started hanging out one on one a lot and then having secret platonic sleepovers and then one day I got in a bad fight with my bf and that’s the first time I officially cheated

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Anonymous OP 1d

You are, you should be in prison

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s not a break up. You have an obligation to tell him in private and to take the consequences of that

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Anonymous #3 1d

It was a real breakup at the time. It doesn’t really change anything tho since all the other hookups have been actual cheating

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah, you’re up there with 🍇ists gng

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Anonymous #3 1d

Okay that’s a beyond fucked up thing to say. I might be a bad person but you’re a worse person just for saying that.

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Anonymous OP 1d

No I’m not. What objective measure makes you sooooo much better than them. You guys are in the same abusive boat creep.

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Anonymous #3 1d

I’m not committing one of the most horrific crimes known to man. I’m not committing any crime at all.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Legality doesn’t mean anything. It being legal or illegal doesn’t make it right or wrong. If 🍇 was legal would it be ok? No. What you do has the same emotional and potentially life threatening outcome

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’d much rather be 🍇d by a woman than cheated on by one.

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Anonymous #3 1d

I said crimes known to man, so like a crime against humanity. That has nothing to do with the legal system. The fact that you think it’s okay to compare one of the most evil acts a human can do to just sleeping around is insane

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Anonymous #4 1d

My bf has a tendency to pick fights with me over dumb stuff and it gets me really frustrated and a lot of the times sad. Ik it’s not an excuse or anything but I’ve come to realize that every time I cheat after that I feel a lot better. His friend is really good in bed and he’s super easy to talk to so it’s basically a therapy session

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Anonymous OP 23h

what do u think will happen if your bf were to find out?

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Anonymous #4 23h

Weirdly enough I don’t think he’d breakup with me, I think he’d do other things to hurt me instead. But he’s like really territorial so he’d probably do everything he could to make sure we don’t break up. He’d also probably attempt to beat up his friend

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Anonymous OP 23h

why do u stay with him? from reading the other comments it seems like u guys get in a lot of fights. you’re clearly not happy in this relationship if u keep cheating all the time, right?

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Anonymous #4 23h

Social pressure I guess. My family all tell me I have to stay with him and my friends all expect us to get married. I’d be disappointing too many people if I broke up with him

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Anonymous OP 23h

i get that. i was with my bf from senior year of hs for 3 years, and i always wanted us to work but there were so many issues. my situation/reasoning was different than yours, but i still think it would be best to tell him and move on. do u want to get married to him? if u plan on staying together u have to be honest

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