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I want to go out to a bar alone just to see if anyone would approach me but I’m also scared for my safety if I do that
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Anonymous 2w

You could go together, but stay separate, just have them keep and eye on you and you them. Have fun “alone” but still safe yk?

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Anonymous 2w

Go have fun

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Anonymous 2w

I literally always want to talk to people at bars but always worry about being intimidating since I’m a dude. I say maybe let a friend know your plan/have them nearby if needed and go for it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

its honestly better for you to worry about it from a woman’s personal anyway, it’s a weird experience because out of curiosity I want to see who would approach me and how, but realistically I know I might be made easily uncomfortable at the same time. my feelings make no sense to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

if I could find a friend also open to it I totally could yeah, I kind of like the idea of not being known by anyone in the room though for some reason not sure why

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