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i’ve realized that a majority of conversations (in my opinion) with men lately have either been: -overly sexual -small talk -dragged on

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Anonymous 17w

no real. it’s either you’re entertaining them bc they’re bored or they’re only talking to get nudes or get in your pants. i honestly think a lot of men aren’t into women at all

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Anonymous 17w

As a guy, i also agree

Anonymous 17w

If we ain’t talking Bron I don’t wanna talk

Anonymous 17w

It feels like I’m either entertainment or property

Anonymous 17w

As a guy I enjoy flirting but not sex talk… that make me too nervous lol

Anonymous 17w

yea bc i feel like even if i just want to have a regular friendship, other factors make it awkward such as people think im flirting w them cs im just goofy or his gf getting jealous and thinking were to close.

Anonymous 17w

I’m a natural flirt so I don’t mean to come off sexual

Anonymous 17w

Do you guys not have… friends?

Anonymous 17w

I enjoy a good conversation but it’s hard to find

Anonymous 17w

Trying to hold a conversation with women these days is unbearable they put in zero effort and make you carry the entire conversation

Anonymous 17w

Lets just all remember to look in the mirror sometimes and realize were participating in the conversation too

Anonymous 17w

thank god i’m in a long term relationship and don’t have to deal with this 🥳

Anonymous 17w

I love dragging on small talk tbh like I’ll ask the stupidest questions like what kind of animal would you be

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Anonymous 17w

It’s either small talk or dragged on nothing in between

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Anonymous 17w

You've never talked to women lol even my very talkative bi gf can't talk to girls she matches with. People in general just have zero conversation skills now, let's not point fingers.

Anonymous 17w

Or here me out choose to talk to better men or maybe you don’t provide anything good for the men to talk to you about all of those talks def are true though with guys

Anonymous 17w

I wonder what the common denominator of all those conversations was.

Anonymous 17w

Idk anytime I tried having a genuine convo y’all get dry 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous 17w

Wanna talk about the Roman Empire?

Anonymous 17w

i'd like to add educating them but in a way where it'll protect their egos

Anonymous 17w

What we supposed to talk about with women? If you’re someone I get with or plan to get with, it’s not gonna be friendly conversations. You’re not my friend, you’re my girl. I know what attracts you and being a friend ain’t it. That’s friend zone material

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Anonymous 17w

I fear you are the only constant factor in these conversations, maybe start there😭

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Anonymous 17w

Misogyny and the red pill losers teach them that it’s normal when it’s gross and shows how pathetic they are

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Anonymous 17w

I have loved my convos with men. They have been what you listed and more! Love me a good man. Like let me tell you about my car and other random shit they wouldn’t expect to hear from a girl.

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Anonymous

#2 17w

🎯 exactly!

Anonymous

#9 17w

Same 😩

Anonymous

#14 17w

I’ve heard this a lot. Thank god I’m different.

Anonymous

decafmocha 17w

I’m pointing fingers at social media tbh.

Anonymous

#3 17w

How will it affect his legacy

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Anonymous

#17 17w

100% agree with you. Honestly it's way worse with people who grow up in the suburbs/rural areas too, bc social media + isolation. Lol

Anonymous

internetuser 17w

You’re a girl.

Anonymous

#21 17w

why are you obsessed

Anonymous

decafmocha 17w

Plus Covid took away vital social years from kids/young adults

Anonymous 17w

I know what you are

Anonymous 17w

nobody said anything about penises

Anonymous

#25 17w

men

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Anonymous

#25 17w

Women

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Anonymous

internetuser 17w

Exposed

Anonymous

#5 17w

As a guy?

Anonymous

#26 17w

As a woman

Anonymous

#5 17w

Either way

Anonymous

#5 17w

No it doesnt

Anonymous

#22 17w

What? Are you saying it doesn’t feel that way for me?

Anonymous

#7 17w

Eww sounds like pick me energy

Anonymous 17w

I’d love to see that study 😂😂😂

Anonymous

#24 17w

Sounds like you’re upset because you can’t have a convo with a guy?

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Anonymous

#7 17w

Can have plenty of convos with men. It’s usually weird pick mes that help encourage men to be misogynists

Anonymous

#24 17w

How am I a misogynist for wanting to have a normal conversation

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Anonymous

#24 17w

😭

Anonymous

#26 17w

Since when did I say you’re a misogynist?

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Anonymous

#26 17w

people will hate on the other gender on their own will.

Anonymous

#24 17w

guys let’s not argue it’s not that deep! men are men and women are women

Anonymous

#24 17w

-said men were misogynists if they agree with #7

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Anonymous

#26 17w

*implied

Anonymous

#26 17w

What

Anonymous

#26 17w

Reading comprehension has clearly been lost on you.

Anonymous

#24 17w

Men love me and women try to. I don’t think it’s that deep tbh. Everyone has their own experience with men.

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Anonymous

#24 17w

Do you understand what I’m saying?

Anonymous

#26 17w

Tbh no I had to look up wtf that word meant. I need dumb terms, I hate reading so my comprehension is ass.

Anonymous

#7 17w

It’s great that you looked it up. Not sarcasm. You don’t have to read novels to have reading comprehension skills. That’s simply being able to understand the meaning behind words, long or short passages. I did not imply that people who agree are misogynists. By stating that there are topics that women dont talk about, you are perpetuating misogyny. Plenty of women talk about cars there are no “men” things and we need to stop playing into the stupid patriarchy.

Anonymous

#24 17w

Than there are no “women” things. Omg my period was crazy yesterday

Anonymous

#24 17w

OK, I understand now. My lack of reading has made my vocabulary list pretty short. I mean, just like some girls in the comments haven’t had good experiences with men. I haven’t had good experiences with women so I am sharing my opinion from my point of view just as everybody else is.

Anonymous

#26 17w

🙏🏼

Anonymous

#24 17w

I mean to a certain extent there are many things and women things I feel like whenever it comes to conversational topics. It can be just a topic for anyone, but there are things that are specific to gender. I also just value certain gender roles and such so we all have our own opinions

Anonymous

#7 17w

Your first comment was one thing. I just assumed you worded it wrong, but yeah, you genuinely sound like a pick me. “I’m not like other girls” 😭

Anonymous

#20 17w

We’re the denominators in our life. If you get food poisoning 3 times from different restaurants, is it your fault because you’re the constant factor?

Anonymous

#25 17w

Yall act like that phrase means anything.

Anonymous

#31 17w

You’ve accidentally hit the nail on the head. If you go to three restaurants and get sick at all of them you’re probably picking terrible restaurants.

Anonymous

#31 17w

Well in this scenario it would be more like getting food poisoning from canes then going back the next day, or going to laynes instead because it’ll be “different.” I hate to be the one who states the obvious but there are ALL kinds of men and ALL kinds of women. Choosing the same type over and over will give you this problem and if you don’t like it maybe that’s not your type 🤯

Anonymous

#31 17w

Like I understand it’s not your fault these shitty convos happen but I can PROMISE that convo dosent happen with everyone who happens to be male, just the pos men y’all be talkin abt cuz that ain’t normal gng you have a choice in who you associate w

Anonymous

#20 17w

OP never said every man was like this, just that most—not all, even—of their own conversations with men were like this. they even added “in my opinion”. you’re arguing with things that were not said

Anonymous

#20 17w

they also said “lately”. how much more specific do you need someone to be with their own experiences in order for you to not jump immediately to blaming them

Anonymous

#23 17w

Hold on ur right I shoulda read that a lil better, I just feel it’s a weird thing to point out. I’m sure you are not interested in my take on how women act “latley”

Anonymous

#20 17w

this reply could’ve ended after the word “better”. correct, I didn’t ask about your interactions with women

Anonymous

#23 17w

Righttt so it seems we both don’t care for the others problems you can see how this is going nowhere, so imma move on and why don’t you do the same 🙂‍↕️🙏🏽

Anonymous

#20 17w

I care about systemic issues, which you also ought to. misogyny is a systemic issue

Anonymous

#23 17w

you were free to move on after saying “you’re right, I misread” tho!