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I’ve (M) had girls call be cute. I don’t agree, I don’t like my looks, but if anything it’s always cute (or the occasional handsome). I always appreciate the compliment as someone so insecure, but I wish I could get called hot too. Like.. yk??
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Anonymous 11w

I guess where I’m coming from is that cute tends to be more,”yeah, you look nice,” whereas hot is more like,”I want you.” Guess I just want to be wanted lol

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Anonymous 11w

Idk as a woman, it’s very rare for me to encounter a guy who I deem as hot, it’s always gonna be cute/ pretty/ or attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Fair. I guess it can all depend on context and preference ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i feel you. but honestly for the most part, girls don’t really say “you’re hot” in your face. to say “you’re cute” is just more tame and less desperate. and so with that, if a girl says you’re cute, then she obviously finds you attractive. if we didn’t find you attractive at all, that wouldn’t come out of our mouth

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