Anonymous #6 5w

Yeah I agree with this. People on both sides suck at times

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Anonymous #8 5w

How to victim blame 101

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Anonymous #10 5w

Oh my bad I didn’t know you were not mentally aware enough to choose who you surround yourself with I’ll just assume you are too weak then next time as to not blame you for your shortcomings😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

Ur right, next time I’ll choose which biological father I get so I don’t grow up with his abuse. My bad G

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Anonymous #10 5w

How to Trauma dump 101, this post clearly ain’t talking about daddy issues😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

Rude way to throw dreams in people’s faces

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Anonymous #1 5w

If it were truly their dreams to be treated right they would take steps to make that happen rather than complain and negatively generalize on the internet

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Anonymous #8 5w

When you fall in love with someone it’s not a choice

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Anonymous #8 5w

Didn’t realise that fathers aren’t men. Interesting…

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Anonymous #1 5w

Love is not a feeling and is 100% a choice yall need to grow up and realize that if you wanna be with someone for even 20 years and still be happy😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

Are you even 20 years old?

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Anonymous #10 5w

Your father clearly wasn’t if he abusing you, but again post wasn’t about that, I do feel bad you are to mentally stuck in the past to let go of someone you are old enough to expel from your life if you wanted🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #10 5w

23 and likely had a harder life than you but you don’t see me crying like a hoe on the internet abput “past trauma” cause as the name implies they in the past and this the present😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

You don’t even know what you’re talking about, do you? You even old enough to be on this app bud?

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Anonymous #8 5w

lol. Yet you’re spending all this time whining to people about how bad you have it and crying about how other people shouldn’t be stuck. Go touch some grass.

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Anonymous #10 5w

Your the one wallowing in your emotions over things that are simply memories and or allowing your father to abuse you, I have balls and expel people including family from my life for such things so I think I do know and you are the one who doesn’t🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #8 5w

Sure Jan.

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Anonymous #10 5w

You started crying, I started telling you to stop crying and trauma dumping but whatever you say imma go have a convo with my father since I’m capable of forgiveness through abuse🥰

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Anonymous #5 5w

Generalizations TYPICALLY come with lots of anecdotal evidence proving that it is in fact the majority. Especially in this case lol

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Anonymous #8 5w

Forgiving your abusers is crazy man. Weren’t you the one telling women not to stand for that shit? Bros not even taking his own advice 😭

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Anonymous #11 5w

That makes no sense. Generalisations are inherently based on emotions and personal experience rather than logic and proven patterns. Saying that women are gold digging slurs is a generalisation. Would you be ok with dudes saying that because some men have had a gold digger experience? Anecdotal evidence is not true evidence. It’s bias

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Anonymous #10 5w

Yea I don’t stand for abuse from partners, that’s my father so I do forgive him and we moved forward because we are family, a boyfriend/girlfriend is separate. For family I do not associate from cutting them off is with a specific cousin nor speak to them for their actions but I also never think of them nor have reason to bring them up until now. If a woman don’t wanna be treated like shit from her BF she needs to choose a better bf like yk likely one that isn’t a drunk or such manners

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Anonymous #10 5w

I told you to cut your father off because you exhibit the inability to forgive whatever abuse you took which was not the case and is fully based on our own perception but to bring it up in regards to a post involving bf hurting gf for no reason it was irrelevant and therefore was cast from the discussion and labeled trauma dumping.

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Anonymous #11 5w

You just committed a logical fallacies— you committed a non sequitur. Your conclusion doesn’t make sense based off of the premises that you stated. Anecdotal evidence cannot prove that something is the majority, because it is impossible to talk to the number of people necessary to generalize something. For example, to get enough evidence, you would need a majority of women to agree with you — roughly 2 billion. Obviously, this is asinine and impossible. However, I may even grant you are correct.

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Anonymous #5 5w

I’m saying that this generalization has basis. Anecdotal or not. It’s a collective of how MANY women feel if not all .

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Anonymous #11 5w

I simply cannot agree with that. The comment says “a man will always be willing to hurt your feelings” and that is just not true—I am living proof. I wouldn’t intentionally try to hurt anyone’s feelings. More men then not that I know would contradict that statement, as well. I understand what you are saying, but I would urge you to be careful with the hasty generalizations you are using.

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Anonymous #5 5w

Well then i guess it’s good different opinions exist!!! I am agreeing to heavily disagree

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Anonymous #11 5w

You are absolutely entitled to have your opinion! All I am saying is that you are going around demonstrating it incorrectly. But more power to you and I wish you all the best!

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Anonymous #11 5w

That sounds like a way to live in constant fear and distrust, it appears being alone is in your future I am sorry for you

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Anonymous #8 5w

Thank you much for your pity loll I have a fiancé !! but yeah i guess the arm chair psychologist just debunked my life for me

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Anonymous #11 5w

I never claimed any of that. However, I still wish you both a happy and healthy marriage!

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Anonymous #11 5w

You have a fiancé?!? Does he know that you are saying he will hurt you and that he desires to hurt you? Seems foolish for you to be in a relationship given the mindset your trying to spread

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Anonymous #8 5w

Why are you so mad about my opinion lol… ??I’m allowed to “spread” my mindset even if you perceive it as wrong

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Anonymous #11 5w

Ignore #8, he’s a self proclaimed “Chad” who likes to victim blame on the internet because he has daddy issues. Hope your engagement has gone and will continue to go well :)

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Anonymous #5 5w

Thank you much!!

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Anonymous #11 5w

If your allowed to spread poison on the internet then so be it but don’t get mad when others start posting for mass deportation or other evils🤷‍♂️ or we can act like words matter and spreading such hate is a bad idea

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Anonymous #10 5w

You are the one with daddy issues I’m the one who forgave my father and was tired of hearing you complain about you and your fathers shitty relationship😂😂😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

This is a little embarrassing for you, I’m not sure what’s got you so mad 😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

Is this statement not poison on the internet LOL

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Anonymous #11 5w

What has me mad is obvious if you read, I am mad yall people are slandering men as a gender when it is very clearly a minority of HUMANS that are evil, it causes division, fear, and hatred and angers me yall are spreading such ignorance

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Anonymous #8 5w

I agree that saying this generalisation about all men is illogical and unfair. But your original comment was to just victim blame women, and now you’re going on tangents about trauma dumping and mass deportation. You’re so off topic.

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Anonymous #8 5w

A history of inappropriate, intense, or poorly controlled anger that interferes with work, school, or social relations is found in roughly one in thirteen US adults. This type of anger was especially common among men. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4384185/?utm_source

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Anonymous #10 5w

My comment was directed towards OP original focus which was all men want to hurt women in reference to relationships not to victim blame but to shed light on the fact that is basically the 1 person in your life you have a choice on being involved and to slander all men because of the bad choice is simply wrong. So yea my original comment was angry but it was only a match of anger rather than a shot out of left feild, for the tangents they refer to metaphors to exarbate my points in regards to

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Anonymous #8 5w

Each comment and draw relation to each specific person I am replying to

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Anonymous #8 5w

This is an anonymous platform so wouldn’t it be a “ generalization “ for you to assume people with my opinion have daddy issues no?

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Anonymous #11 5w

You brought up daddy issues, reread the thread😂😂😂

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Anonymous #8 5w

Brother you are lost i never once mentioned fathers 🙏🏾

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Anonymous #11 5w

In fact I spoke about fornication and you brought up your dad now that I’m rereading🫥🫥

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Anonymous #11 5w

Then I never said you had daddy issues only to #10 mb was not reading your number only your comment

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Anonymous #8 5w

No, I replied to #5 and you chimed in because you didn’t like my opinion even though nobody was speaking to you

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Anonymous #11 5w

I chimed in because you made a bold statement against men in general on a comment section I have been active in, I disagreed and still do with your generalization and will chime up again if I could redo the convo

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Anonymous #8 5w

Notice how I didn’t make any personal attacks yet i still delivered my point and in a reasonable way??? You really should try it instead of throwing a tantrum when people don’t hold the same opinion as you.

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Anonymous #11 5w

To say all men want to hurt people is not an opinion but a claim to the very nature of men that causes division, fear, and distrust. If you disagree than the statement all women are sluts should have no effect on you (btw only an example of a statement I do not believe this in the slightest even tho there are women who are sluts that exist)

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Anonymous #11 5w

So a shotgun blast against a crowd is more humane than a sniper shot against a shooter good to know

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Anonymous #8 5w

I don’t understand people’s arguments when they go off on tangents that are heavily unrelated

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Anonymous #8 5w

I’m not sure why you are still going with this… You have your opinion I have mine and so do many other women .

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Anonymous #11 5w

Ok I will speak in a way that is simpler for you to understand. You call all men bad, it is not true and harmful to say. I disagree and make point that calling all of a people harms society.

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Anonymous #8 5w

I didn’t say all men are bad that is an untrue statement

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Anonymous #11 5w

An opinion that is harmful and hateful and simply untrue

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Anonymous #11 5w

Nah shit I over simplified what you said

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Anonymous #8 5w

That’s also your opinion

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Anonymous #11 5w

So you agree with racism?

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Anonymous #8 5w

Left field again you are just rage baiting at this point, go argue with someone who can communicate at your level

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Anonymous #11 5w

Racism- hatred based on a generalization on a group of people that are different than yourself. Not left field your just to dull to understand metaphors and similis

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Anonymous #8 5w

I never said all men are bad, I also didn’t make the post. You seem very confused.

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Anonymous #11 5w

Your logic is the same logic that supports allowing people to be racist, sexiest, and homophobic expect your just using it to be sexust

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Anonymous #8 5w

I already said you have your OPINION i have mine. Go talk with someone who cares or agrees with your opinion .

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Anonymous #11 5w

“Generalizations TYPICALLY come with lots of anecdotal evidence proving that it is in fact the majority. Especially in this case lol” this sounds a lot like what I said but ok you go be sexist and ignorant🤡

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Anonymous #8 5w

Ok but promise when i go on to be sexist and ignorant you have to take the time to learn how to spell and form sentences properly ok deal💗

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To focus on the specific grammer rather than the point of the conversation shows me where your mind is, to “dull” and you’re not able to think outside the box and understand abstract concepts but rather focus on in line forms of reasoning

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Anonymous #8 5w

IT IS “TOO” not “to” . I know you feel powerful and like you “owned” me but honestly it’s embarrassing bc i clearly don’t agree with you and i DO NOT CARE !!! Argue with the wall buddy

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Anonymous #11 5w

Sounds like a deal, that just means long as I keep speaking without grammer you will stop with your ignorant sexism

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Anonymous #11 5w

I am arguing with a wall😂

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Anonymous #11 5w

I deadass don’t care about winning or loosing this is not for my good but to show you your own illogical thinking patterns, I don’t feel “powerful” nor is that the goal the goal is for you to realize what you speak of is harmful to society and the more you venerate such ideas the more divided we become

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Anonymous #8 5w

Truly truly i don’t care but keep yapping it’s kind of entertaining

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Anonymous #11 5w

I’m so glad America getting nuked soon🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous #8 5w

Amen to that

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Anonymous #5 5w

We all know pretty privileged is a thing and our society influences men to be brutal and the two definitely go hand in hand in this instance

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Anonymous #1 4w

It still is. You can still pull away at any point in time

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