Morally? Morals go out the window when someone tries to rape someone else, by definition rape is sex, and by definition physically their virginity is gone, whether you choose to view your virginity that way mentally or not is a different story, but you cannot view rape as not sex there is a difference between consensual (including cnc) and non consensual (not including cnc) sex and rape is non consensual sex, by saying that rape isn’t sex it is essentially downplaying what it actually is and -