Anonymous #1 23h

I disagree. No one’s business. That makes it my dealbreaker

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Anonymous #2 23h

I think slut shaming makes someone an incel yes. “Sexual discipline” is already treading thin ice as it is

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Anonymous OP 23h

If a person doesn’t want to be with someone with a high body count that’s ok. Me personally if I found out a girl I was dating was with 100 guys before me I’m not seeing her as long term relationship potential. That’s just how it is

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Anonymous OP 23h

well, objectively speaking incel is just a man who is involuntarily celibate but that’s just semantics ig, either way imo ur bc reflects u don’t see sex the same way as someone with 0 or 1 like someone waiting for marriage. not saying that’s wrong btw!!just saying if someone wants someone else with the same view alignment that’s not odd

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Anonymous #1 11h

And if I was with a man who made it a big deal how many people I slept with, that would also be a dealbreaker for me, which is what I’ve already said. So it works out both ways

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Anonymous #2 11h

Sure I could agree with that but I still don’t appreciate the phrase sexual discipline. That was my only issue

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Anonymous OP 11h

Right but like I’m saying it seems like just by even asking that’s a huge deal when literally it’s a question. There’s nothing wrong with asking it if it’s just to gauge compatibility

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Anonymous #1 10h

It’s a big deal to me but it doesn’t have to be to you right? Just like body count isn’t a big deal to me, but it is to you. Again, it goes both ways. If anybody who isn’t a doctor is that concerned about judging my sexual history, that’s an automatic dealbreaker. I don’t owe that explanation to anyone. I dont know his BC and he doesnt know mine and we’re happy that way

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Anonymous #5 10h

lol do you think I’m stupid? My DM‘s are off for a reason especially on posts like these.

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Anonymous OP 9h

Who’s not a doctor? I’m not one and I took basic sex ed class and know basics of STIs. If a person has unprotected sex with 100 people they most likely have at least one

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Anonymous #1 6h

Funny how these conversations always trickle towards sex shaming whether people want to admit it or not. Cause what in the hell makes you assume that a certain body count implies unprotected sex each time? I think we all know “the basics.” And 100 people is an outrageous outlier that you just had to pick. Atp you’re just side tracking when my last comment pretty much sums up this issue: we can agree to disagree. If you’re not my doctor, youre not entitled to my sexual history 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 6h

I picked 100 at random it’s an even number. I could’ve picked 69 to be funny haha also shame is not always a bad thing. People who commit crimes are typically shamed and most of the time that helps people avoid purposefully seeking out doing criminal activity. Also for sure we definitely can agree to disagree

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