As a general rule, unless you give someone a giant picture of you, they probably shouldn’t have a giant picture of you
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Anonymous1d
there is nothing cute about this
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Anonymous1d
we need more context lmfao, this could go either way
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Anonymous1d
yea?
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Anonymous#11d
What more context is there?
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Anonymous#21d
Yea to cute or creepy?
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AnonymousOP1d
Creepy
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AnonymousOP1d
like are they a bf/close friend or some random guy, is it a random pic of just you that they took off your socials, are there other people in it
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Anonymous#11d
He’s been a really close friend for years but we’ve recently started having sex. I used to do some modeling stuff and the photo is from a professional shoot that he could’ve just gotten off the internet. It’s just me in the photo, no one else.
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AnonymousOP1d
oh man, yeah this is creepy
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Anonymous#11d
Well damn.
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Anonymous#31d
Well that’s not great to hear.
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AnonymousOP1d
i mean you asked the question, and you got your answers 😭
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Anonymous#41d
That being said, did he have it before you started sleeping together
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Anonymous#41d
Yeah he’s had it for a couple years apparently, we didn’t start sleeping together until a couple months ago
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Anonymous#41d
I gotta admit btw, that’s a really good general rule.
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Anonymous#31d
Yeah ik, I’m not mad about the answer. But it’s never great to hear that your best friend who you’re fucking is being creepy
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AnonymousOP1d
years??? that’s a red flag that’s way too obsessive. now if he got it a few weeks after yall started hooking up then it’s like
oh okay
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Anonymous#51d
What if he says he considers it to be like any other piece of fine art on his walls?
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AnonymousOP1d
I mean if he’s been in love with you the whole time, okay maybe it’s not terrible, but if the giant picture of you has stains on it it’s for sure creepy
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AnonymousOP1d
it’s still creepy imho, even with him being in love with you it’s still inappropriate to
have a huge picture of you just in his room before yall were even sexually or romantically (?) involved
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Anonymous#41d
It doesn’t have stains lol, but I don’t think he’s in love with me? We’re just good friends who have sex
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Anonymous#51d
I don’t think he’s in love with me. But yeah I see how it’s inappropriate
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AnonymousOP1d
Omg he’s had it for YEARS? Massive yikes
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AnonymousOP1d
He’s your best friend and you sleep together. You’re both in love