If you’re not okay with being fat, then take actual steps to lose weight. Can’t do too much about genetics but fat you can lose. More important though is confidence. Plenty of people are attracted to chubby/fat folks but you gotta wear it and not be ashamed of it. Dress in a complementary way, because people can tell if you’re trying to hide it. I lost 60 lbs and looking at pics of myself from back then it was so obvious that I was trying to mask my fat & it was not working

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