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my ex who hit me is now in another relationship and now so am i as well. i saw my ex has a new gf; and she seems incredibly sweet. I feel horrible because i want to warn her that hes an abuser, but then it'd seem like i am a stalker. idk what to do
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Anonymous 6w

Honestly I’d just dm her straight up. Whether on your main account or anonymous one just say hey I know this might come off as strange and we don’t know each other, but I felt it was important to reach out. I was in a past relationship with ____, and over time became physically abusive. I just felt compelled to share this with you incase you’ve experienced any red flags and to be careful. I don’t want to interfere but personally I wish that someone would’ve told me.

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Anonymous 6w

get on the tea app and warn her and future women indirectly

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Anonymous 6w

Emma?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Like I’d want to know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Thats assuming shes also on it and would still have to wait weeks to be accepted in order to find out. There are quicker ways.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

yeah i’d still do it tho. i haven’t had good experiences with trying to directly warn people about their boyfriends and you don’t wanna have to keep track of who he’s dating to tell them every time

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