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My man tends to say love you instead of I love you and I haven’t told him that it bugs me even tho I know it’s not like a serious thing and he probably doesn’t think too deep about it. I’m just crazy and insecure 🙃
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Anonymous 16w

My ex was the same way as you and I was more or less like him. I think this is similar to the whole pronoun situation. You’re well within your right to voice your concern or just casually say that you’d prefer if he said “I love you”, same goes for people who want to be identified a certain way Just make sure that if or when he doesn’t and just says “love you” that you don’t scold and berate him for it. At the end of the day it isn’t a super huge deal so go easy on the guy if she forgets

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Anonymous 16w

Respectfully, yeah you sound insecure. Not meaning that in an offensive way, more meaning that it’s something to work on. I really doubt he means anything by it.

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis2.9 16w

He*

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis2.9 16w

Similar to how I would appreciate if you don’t yell at me and throw derogatory terms at me and cancel me if I accidentally call you your wrong pronouns

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Anonymous replying to -> littlepenis2.9 16w

I get you and I probably will bring it up to him kindly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16w

No I get that that’s literally why I said I know he doesn’t mean anything by it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yeah I was just providing my input on it and affirming your view

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