Hi! Speaking as someone who is also extremely picky, don’t lower those standards! I didn’t have my first kiss until senior year, and didn’t have my first time until college, with the same guy! It’s how I found someone emotionally intelligent, super smart, loving, strong, and funny! As well as super handsome. We’re still together over a year later and even if we didn’t work out in the long-run, I would have no regrets. Keep your standards!