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Confessions 8w
Approaching women in public is not being a creep unless you're creepy about it. Male loneliness epidemic and it's just you not knowing how to be normal
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Anonymous 8w

I’d say this is true 85-90% of the time. I have had one or two off-interactions, but my other successes tell me it wasn’t a me problem lol

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Anonymous 8w

OP are you a woman or a man just curious

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Anonymous 8w

Im a normal dude but the moment I talk to women I find attractive I start stuttering like I’m stupid does this mean Im weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I don't understand this comment. Are you saying you were being a creep 10-15% of the time you approached women? Wdym you disagree that you're not a creep unless you're creepy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I think 1 is a girl and is saying that one or two times a guy came up to her she was weirded out, but since it didn’t happen every time, it wasn’t a her problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

No, that in 10-15% will treat public approaches from men as being a creep no matter what (ofc depending on how attractive the dude is). At least what I’ve observed. I don’t feel uncomfortable approaching women personally, but I will say that if someone seems off (like they’re getting through some shit, I get it) I just don’t bother. Hence why I’ve only had 1-2 interactions where it felt like I was being treated like a creep. One of those, one of their friends called them out to chill

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Bro just say you’re anti-men and not willing to actually have a conversation. You want to go on a tirade against “creepy” men yet can’t help but think for a second that some women are just weird ab shit just like men are

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Where does it say any of that in the post?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I don’t think OP is saying that. This reads as a post from frustration bc of the constant dialogue of male loneliness yet no one is acknowledging some of the factors that contribute to it.

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