try to convince her to breakup w him if she won't then tell him

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Yes then get with him

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If you can do it 100% anonymously then yes

414

Was in the same situation with a friend in high school. I ended up telling him and she got PISSSSED. do it at your own risk

320

me and my boyfriend are both upvoting on one phone so count mine as 2

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Definitely tell him.

157

Please tell him please, I’m the long dist boyfriend and would WAY rather know

156

Tell him. You don’t know how far their relationship might end up going. He might make a serious commitment to her and find out later down the line when they’re married that she’s a cheater.

119

Tell him

67

nah mind ur business

61

It’s not your place to say anything when you’re not even friends w the guy

56

Tell him! If you don’t, you’re passively supporting her behavior

52

Yeah so tell him because she’s not going to

44

Tell him 🙂‍↕️

43

I wouldn’t get involved, you don’t know how people can retaliate and since you’re roommates you could just end up putting yourself in a hostile environment if you still have to live with her. I’d say let her tell him if she wants to or try to convince her to break up with him. I wouldn’t get involved beyond that, especially if you’re friends with her and not him.

38

Mind your fucking business

36

Do it

34

I know a couple where the girl cheated. I want to tell him so bad! It happened in 2020. I still feel bad he doesn’t know. he has 2 kids with her now. I still feel conflicted. being the bad guy and breaking up a family isn’t good for the kids… she also hits him gave him a black eye last week.

25

I have multiple phone numbers I’ll gladly text him!

22

give me his contact and i’ll do it for him no names or anything bc you live with her can’t get caught

19

I would stay out of it, it will soon fall apart anyways trust me

18

Not your monkey, not your circus. Only take the nuclear route if you have a roommate exit strategy otherwise it’s going to be a long ass semester

17

I would convince her to do it herself because if you do it she will most likely know and you will be her roommate along time

16

Well, if you plan on telling him, you'd have to find a way to move out of the room to avoid any potential consequences you may face (even if you do the right thing)

14

I went thru this before. The end where ur conflicted on telling or not. Give her an ultimatum. It needs to come from her but don’t lie for her. He needs to know. The longer it goes on THE WORST it will be.

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HELL YEAH

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Create a poll!!! The downvote wars are insane

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I was cheated on while long distance and I wish someone would’ve told me. Try to get her to come clean or break up, but if she won’t you should tell him.

12

tell him but do it anonymously bcz having roommate beef for the rest of the year is not fun

11

What school? Better not be my gf

11

I definitely think you should tell him, but also consider what the living situation would be like for you. If you feel like she’d become bitter and make your life hell for telling, then I’d find some other avenue. Like the top comment said, try getting her to break up with him. You getting involved might make your life terrible

10

i’m long distance, definitely tell him

9

Absolutely tell. My old roomate from two years ago cheated on her boyfriend. I witnessed it. She then proceeded to lie to my face the very next day about it. She planned on living with me again when I renewed the lease. I kicked her out because of this. F*ck a cheater.

9

also make sure you have a backup roommate if need be

9

Stay out of it.

8

Absolutely tell him. Don’t make her break up with him, he deserves to know

8

Try to get her to break up with him, if not and you can do it anonymously then tell him. But this is your roommate for the year so don’t get yourself into a situation that’s going to suck all year if she knows you told

8

Not your monkeys not your circus stay out of it

8

Don’t get involved if you don’t know him personally. You do not want to live with someone who hates you for the rest of the semester. But if you are willing to deal with that tell him anonymously on like a fake instagram or smth.

8

don’t snitch bro

8

i would give her the chance to tell him first or else that’s gonna be one hell of a school year living w her😭

8

Usually I’d try to be respectful and not intervene in things that aren’t my business, but cheaters make me want to burn the world down and I’m feeling toxic so tell him.

7

Yes def tell him

7

Girl you that is none of your business lmao

7

Hello we need an update??

7

that’s not even ur friend js say fuck it n let it be

6

record her cheating then send it to him

6

Mind ur business.

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Make a poll

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Nunya

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Tell her bf. Bc when he finds that and figures out you knew, it’ll make things ten times worse

6

Please do

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No, they will blame you. Stay out of it

5

Girl just mind your business you’re going to create so much unnecessary drama

5

Just get a fake number and drop a photo of her cheating 😪

5

Tell him. He deserves to know nobody deserves to be cheated on

4

Your keeping that man from his future wife by not telling him

4

Girl honestly just mind ur business for a few months u don’t want roommate beef

4

Duhhhhhhhh

4

TELL HIM TF, DON’T HESITATE

3

this is like the 4th one i’m hearing abt yeesh

3

No you live with her and if she’s nutty you’ll be paying for that the entire year

3

tell him. i would want to know 🤷🏽‍♀️but prepare yourself to still have to live with her after as well

3

idk what if he cheated first…. it’s hard out here yall

3

no offense, I don’t agree with what she’s doing, but that’s not your business. Especially if you don’t know him personally, you gotta live with this girl and you don’t want her hating on you because you wanted to intervene.

3

depends how much you care about ur relationship w her

3

tell him, if you don’t let me do it

2

TELL HIM

2

Stay out of it

1

that is not your place

1

Very rare situation, but lowkey no cuz you have to live with her for a very long time.

1

no mind ur bis

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Mind yours

1

You on some weird shit

1

Nah

1

Bro stay in ur lane all men r evil

1

do NOT tell him dude it’s not your business and she’s just gonna go do it to another guy TRUST

1

It’s just like, men would never snitch on each other, so why are you even considering snitching on him?

1

Tell her that you know and give her the chance before you do

1

is ur roommate a 5’4 fake blonde?

1

tell him i’ve seen this film before

0

never do anything for a man

0

Girl don’t tell him he’ll find out on his own probs and you don’t want the beef with a person you’re living in the same room with

0

Oh I know who this is 😭😭

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Men deserve to be cheated on

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depends do you like the guy as a person or does he deserve it

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Don't snitch

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No mind ya business

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U is a lameeeee

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