true confession: I slept with three men in the span of a week and got pregnant a month later. I told them all I was exclusive and had an abortion. All three felt bad for me I don’t regret it.
Telling them all you were exclusive is pretty fucked up, but the rest I can brush off as shit happens. I feel like telling someone you’re exclusive and then fucking someone else, is cheating. Even if you weren’t exactly dating.
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Anonymous2w
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Anonymous2w
Looo #1 is I need more abortions I will have them
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Anonymous#12w
We wasn’t dating tbh none of them ended up being my bf so it’s their faults
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AnonymousOP2w
Still like I said doesn’t matter if you’re dating, telling them you’re exclusive and then not following through on that is basically cheating. Maybe not quite as bad but still.
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Anonymous#12w
So I should have kept the baby and they all raised it?
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AnonymousOP2w
No clue where you got that from????
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Anonymous#12w
Sorry I thought that’s what u meant
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AnonymousOP2w
No. I meant you cheated lol. I understand getting an abortion in that situation, hell I would’ve without a second thought. Just the claiming to be exclusive is fucked.
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Anonymous#12w
It wasn’t cheating they chose to fuck me raw tbh plus I only like knew them all for a few months but ig I didn’t tell them I was seeing other people it was more don’t ask don’t tell
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AnonymousOP2w
But you told them you were exclusive? That means only seeing them… EXCLUSIVELY. As in no one else. And that was a lie. Therefore, cheating.
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Anonymous#12w
I said this pussy yours is whst I mean lol
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AnonymousOP2w
Then girl don’t say you told them you were exclusive 😭 lowkey feel like you’re jus back peddling cus you don’t wanna be called a cheater.
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Anonymous#12w
It’s not cheating if we weren’t dating 😭 I don’t owe men anything
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AnonymousOP2w
I mean you don’t but telling someone you’re exclusive and not being exclusive is a violation of trust and absolutely shitty. Like your word just don’t mean shit?
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Anonymous#12w
Yes if I just fucking someone basically
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AnonymousOP2w
Yea but you need to be open with people abt if you’re fuckin other ppl. Like they probably would NOT have gone raw if they knew you were messing around with 2 other guys.
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Anonymous#12w
Yes but I don’t owe them that I think cuz what if they fucking other people
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AnonymousOP2w
???? Then you would hope they would be honest as well???? It’s a two way street man if you’re both not telling than that’s how issues start. This is the baseline with any sexual partner, safe sex 101, basic respect and maturity.
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Anonymous#12w
no
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AnonymousOP2w
Girl….. you are not practicing safe sex in the big 25. Fucking crazy.
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Anonymous#12w
No why do u think I needed an abortion
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AnonymousOP2w
Girl shit happens even with safe sex, but actively ignoring basically EVERY safe sex practice?????? Wild. STUPID even.
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AnonymousOP2w
girl I already said idgaf if you’re gettin abortions, I care about the safety of you and your sexual partners 😭 yk like a compassionate human being.
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Anonymous#12w
No they made their bed
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AnonymousOP2w
???? GIRL YOU MADE THEIR BED, YOU LIED TO THEM FUCKERS
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Anonymous#12w
NO I DIDNT PEOPLE SAY CRAZY STUFF DURING SEX
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AnonymousOP2w
THAT DOESNT MAKE IT TRUE???? THATS SOMETHING YOU GOTTA CLARIFY LATER ON.
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Anonymous#12w
NO
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AnonymousOP2w
EXACTLY, THATS A LIE OF OMISSION. YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE HAVIN SEX. PRACTICE SAFE SEX.
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Anonymous#12w
NO BECAUSE I GET CHECKED AFTER
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AnonymousOP2w
ITS STILL A VIOLATION OF TRUST TO NOT INFORM SEXUAL PARTNERS THAT YOU ACTIVELY HAVE SEX WITH OTHER PPL. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU SAY “this pussy yours” DURING SEX
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Anonymous#12w
NO ITS ACTUALLY NOT BECAUSE IF THEY DONT ASK I DONT TWLL. I DO NOTHAVE AN STD. THEY ARE CHOOSING TO HAVE IT RAW