my ex broke up with me because of my drinking but didn’t ever give me the chance to stop. is that fair? (never yelled or got violent, just louder and more excited)
Yeah. It’s fair to leave a relationship at any time for any reason
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Anonymous15w
yeah it's fair. alcoholics are scary. you might not have done anything but given her past trauma you can't blame her for wanting to stay far away from that
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Anonymous15w
Yes it’s fair I’ve been through that and personally I wish I had just left instead of giving chances bc u won’t fix urself for anyone but you no matter how much u may love them
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Anonymous15w
I honestly want more details. They didn’t like how much u drank? Even though u didn’t do anything wrong?
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Anonymous#115w
her dad was an alcoholic and she said “the way” i drank without stopping reminded her of him
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Anonymousog_beer15w
awful take😭
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AnonymousOP15w
not an awful take at all. seems your ex dodged a major bullet
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AnonymousOP15w
How is “no one is entitled to a relationship with someone and is free to leave whenever they’d like” a bad take
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Anonymousog_beer15w
i don’t disagree with whenever you’d like but for any reason seems immature
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AnonymousOP15w
Thing is tho u don’t need a reason and the fact that she told u abt her dad being a drinker and it didn’t click that maybe she didn’t wanna be around that is immature and now ur making her out to be the bad guy
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AnonymousOP15w
Would you rather someone continue to date you when they have a reason they want to leave? Growing resentment until they hate you?