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I met this girl a few years ago when I stated college. I fell hard really fast and can’t admit it, and now we’re good friends, but every time I’m with her I keep thinking about how I would do literally anything to make her happy and feel loved and safe
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Anonymous 1d

Is she interested too?

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Anonymous 23h

Starting with physical yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I really don’t know. Some people who know us think that there could be something there, but I’m bad at reading signals

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

What if u try dropping more subtle hints?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I’ve tried to but always freeze up and don’t know what to say

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Does she ever like try to touch you or ask to hang out a lot?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

We go do things together a lot, it’s a mix of who asks, I think she does more. She never really tries to touch me, but every so often it feels like when our hands touch it feels like it’s a little longer than it should be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Honestly I think the first start is try to make more physical touch with her, nothing crazy, like when u laugh put ur hand on her and see how she reacts. If she looks uncomfy stop asap but see if she starts to reciprocate. Does she talk abt her dating history at all? Or who shes talking to/looking to date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

We’ve talked a bit about who we’ve talked to. She’s never dated anyone, she’s picky about it. We’re both looking for the same thing, both of us are looking for the right person to eventually marry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I think the baseline physical attraction is there though, we did originally match on tinder when we had our first class together, then stopped talking there. In another class we actually got to know each other

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Do u guys have similar values?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

She could be scared to make a move

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

We do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

That’s why I never have, I’ve always been too scared to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I think you should do it subtly if u can

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Yeah, I want to. She’s my exact type and I’ve never felt this strongly about anyone else so I really want to move past being just friends

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