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men who facetime you to masturbate without telling you is part of rape culture and its gross and uncomfortable
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Anonymous 1d

my ex gf did that except she was getting railed while we were on ft 😀

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Anonymous 1d

This and also dick pics too

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Anonymous 1d

the fact that you were close enough with the person to be otp with them, and they just straight up betrayed it it is maybe one of the saddest things about this.

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Anonymous 1d

this man I’ve never met sent me a pic of his d**k after i told him i had made things exclusive with someone else. It’s just so disrespectful and dehumanizing

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Anonymous 1d

Would not do this even if we were married for 50 years 😭

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Anonymous 1d

Wtf I have never heard of this

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Anonymous 1d

I mean… it’s a non consensual sexual display… I don’t think you need to do research to find out that’s rape culture

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Anonymous 1d

When I was in elementary me and my friend went on monkey and a guy had his thing on cam and my friend started to laugh like crazy and I was so confused and I just kept asking is it a baby carrot?? What am I looking at!? A baby’s hand!? And she was laughing so hard to explain and it finally clicked and i screamed and turned off the phone

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Anonymous 1d
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Anonymous 1d

i had my ex gf do this to me… heard everything 😀

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Anonymous 1d

Hang up and block.

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Anonymous 1d

THEY DO THIS?!

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Anonymous 1d

Where they do that at?💔

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Anonymous 1d

If I’ve been talking to them for a while, and we’ve done things in person before.. I don’t mind though it kinda turns me on

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Anonymous 1d

Glad i would never actually do this then.

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Anonymous 1d

Is it really? I’m not at all disagreeing, simply curious. Like, it’s been researched and investigated?

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Anonymous 1d

?

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 1d

it unfortunately is common, and sometimes it takes a second to realize what’s happening if the camera is on their face :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That is insane wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

HUHHH

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeah it lowk traumatized me

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

i’m so sorry 🫢

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

thank you she was wildly abusive and probably psychotic but i cut her off now 😄

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Anonymous 1d

Ik ur being sarcastic right…

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1d

yeah 😬 it’s happened to me as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Holy shit man now I’m scared

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1d

lowkey shaming the shit out of them is a power move that has desired revenge effects

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Oh come on, don’t downvote me, I’m simply curious!! Just because I’m asking a question doesn’t mean I’m challenging you or disagreeing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

rape culture is embedded in way more than i think anyone realizes. the other party doesn’t know, its a non consensual sex act which absolutely contributes to rape culture. especially if they are trying to get off to your face. can’t describe how dehumanizing it feels that they feel entitled to you like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah, okay, I can see that. I’m always super hesitant to just accept any FaceTime from a guy I barely spoken 3 words to. I also really hate when they’re calling too. Like TEXT ME. All that and then answering a FaceTime to a dick on your screen? Hell no. Thank you for your explanation. Honestly, when I read the status for some reason, I picked up a feeling that maybe you were involved within psychology, maybe even saw some latest research or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 1d

No, but if there is researched, it would be very insightful to read

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

Bro I wish I could hug you rn because wtf 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 1d

omg my hater, i found you 🥰 👋

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 1d

i feel like if there’s already some type of agreement it’s fine!

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 1d

Hii

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 18h

Same. Can we be clear on what’s actually happening here? Are we saying the guy is masturbating while on FaceTime with the girl with the girl being unaware of it? Is that what’s going on? I’m a guy and this is News to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #25 18h

yes

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