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Unpopular opinion, I think some parents don’t truly love their children.
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Anonymous 12w

and they regret having kids but will never admit it

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Anonymous 12w

I think some are very jealous/resentful of their children

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Anonymous 12w

this is definitely true and happens all the time. my mother simply had children because that’s what she knew her family wanted.

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Anonymous 12w

bro? yall would be surprised! this is NOT uncommon and this will continue to happen because abortion is left up to the states

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Anonymous 12w

this is not unpopular

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Anonymous 12w

my former roommate had a kid bc she doesn’t believe in abo**ion and she said last night that she could live with just seeing her daughter every other weekend

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Anonymous 12w

some people think bringing a child into the world will fix their life or their happiness or their relationship and then are resentful after a while when it doesnt fix everything

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Anonymous 12w

that’s not an unpopular opinion

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Anonymous 12w

Personally I think a lot of parents love their children but don’t really like them. Especially past childhood

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Anonymous 12w

oh fs this is apparent in some relationships

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Anonymous 12w

True that’s why I’m my own mami 😜

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Anonymous 12w

This is literally a fact

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Anonymous 12w

Well duh

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Anonymous 12w

Ong

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Anonymous 12w

Parents always teaching you to be more grateful while they wish u was still in the sac probs the best lesson to be grateful that u made it out the sac even tho u may be too depressed to get out of bed today🤩

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Anonymous 12w

Does anyone else feel like their parents are afraid you will become like them/their family?

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Anonymous 12w

My dad loves me but not enough

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah I think I would be a terrible mother cause I’d hate my kids so I’m just not gonna be one until that changes or if not well then no kids sorry

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Anonymous 12w

this one goes out to my mom

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Anonymous 12w

It’s not just an unpopular opinion, it’s an unpopular truth because people want to disguise ill treatment of children as “tough love” when in the long run it just ends up hurting them more than being cared and nurtured.

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Anonymous 12w

How is this an unpopular opinion you moron

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

My mom in a nutshell. Any time I float the idea that I don’t want to be trapped in a 40-50+ hour career I don’t enjoy she tries to guilt trip me and beg for sympathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

That is so sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

But she thinks shes morally superior for having the kid i bet lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

thats what im saying she’s so backwards

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

This is so sad. Then why have them in the first place. Some have more than one might I add.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Because they’re living the life they couldn’t, shouldn’t they be happy for them? That blows my mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 12w

I really wonder why that is because that’s so weird to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Holding such big responsibility on your child just isn’t right. What about that child’s own life and responsibilities. The only person responsible for fixing anything or their own happiness is themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I hate when religion is the reason they force themselves to miserably go through with it and then the resentment is targeted towards the child :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

Like if every “life” mattered then focus on the children that are already here struggling. Orphanages are packed like crazy :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Seriously. My mom was jealous of me and my husband (he was my bf at the time) cause our relationship was healthy and she kept saying some bullshit so I called her out with, “at least I have my own happiness and didn’t break up marriages to find it” and slammed the door in her face (mind you she didn’t live with me at the time). She tried breaking into the room and my sister almost whooped her ass

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Accidents slip through

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 12w

there’s still ways out if you accidentally get pregnant. People who have already had kids could’ve gotten abortions as they weren’t illegal in some states yet. They could’ve put the kid up for adoption if they didn’t want to abort there’s always ways out

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 12w

Stfu 😭🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I can see her as being the type of parent to tell their kid “you owe me your life”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

my mom has seven kids 🤩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

it will get worse because of abortion laws too

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 11w

Heavy on this. Like those kids need care too

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