Confessions on Yik Yak | ive been with my girlfriend for a very long time about 4 years and we have had very very different sexual preferences, we didn’t even do it for the first 2 years and i really want to have sex more but she told me she just doesnt enjoy it

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Confessions 16w

ive been with my girlfriend for a very long time about 4 years and we have had very very different sexual preferences, we didn’t even do it for the first 2 years and i really want to have sex more but she told me she just doesnt enjoy it

Anonymous 16w

we go months between and thats pretty tough for me, makes me wish i wasnt as hypersexual but theres not much i can do about that

Anonymous 16w

i personally couldn’t be in a long term relationship with someone i’m not sexually compatible with. ofc, a relationship is more than sex but i’d wanna be on the same page with how we feel about it

Anonymous

OP 16w

What differences?

Anonymous

#1 16w

preferences probably wasnt the right word but like different libido, i pretty much am always trynna get laid and she doesnt even think about it ever

Anonymous

OP 16w

And she always says no?

Anonymous

#2 16w

thats starting to be where im at but i hate that sex would be the reason i leave someone like the relationship is definitely more than that but its starting to make me kinda sad, it just makes me feel unattractive and unwanted tbh and i wish that wasnt the case

Anonymous

#1 16w

probably 65% of the time yeah, it really has been months and weve talked about it before and she said she genuinely just doesnt enjoy it and is painful, which is completely valid and not something i would ever force which is also why its so long in between because its to the point i feel bad even asking tbh

Anonymous

OP 16w

Maybe you could talk to a sex therapist about it