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Confessions 4d
i’m asexual ama
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Anonymous 4d

do it giggle? by it i mean your mouth.

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Anonymous 4d

Whats your opinion on garlic bread and cake

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Anonymous 4d

Also a more serious question: what would you do in a relationship with an allo person if they preferred sex? Would you have sex with them or let them have sex with others or is that a dealbreaker for you? Sorry if this was an intrusive question

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Anonymous 4d

Would you rather fuck your mom in your dads body or your dad in your moms body?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

yes it do

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

very very yummy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

i think i would rather get cancer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Until you have cancer... then you'd have to make a very traumatic decision

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

i’ve thought about it a lot and personally i just don’t believe that an asexual person could or should ever be in a relationship with an allo person. even if they’re willing to have sex. it just doesn’t seem fair to either partner imo. some ace people have sex because they enjoy pleasing their partner, which is fine. but the allo person deserves someone who is attracted to them sexually and can appreciate them in that light

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

My experience as an ace person who’s dated allos, I offer sexual things to appease them and then suddenly I’m expected to do them constantly even after clarifying it’s a once in a while thing. Realizing I probably just need to accept I can’t b w allos

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

like on the asexual side: sex shouldn’t feel like a chore or something you are just doing for one of you guys. and on the allo side: they deserve to be with someone who will love them and understand sex in the same way they do. because it’s a type of connection that is really important to some. if one person isn’t feeling on the same level as the other, it just seems unbalanced and exhausting

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

exactly, its just not fair to either partner

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I feel like what’s frustrating is that ppl get to know me and I explicitly tell them I can’t b sexual with them, and they tell me it’s okay. N after I pour a bunch of mental and emotional effort into the relationship they realize oh wait I actually can’t not have sex w my partner. Like bruh. Why did u get into a relationship w me knowing I can’t do that for u. They do deserve to have their needs met, just be honest w urself right off the bat instead of doing this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

i know. even if allo people say they are fine with it. it’s just not true, it will never be true. this is why i think if someone says they’re allo, it’s not even worth giving romance a chance with them because it will just never work

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Wow that actually made me reevaluate my opinion a bit, thank you. You’re right, it isn’t fair

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