Dodging what bro? You’re being an ass and projecting your issues onto others and claiming that they’re needy while demanding people’s unrestricted time and effort. Having a boundary set for the people in your life isn’t “needy”. Wanna befriend them? Go for it. Don’t like how they operate? That’s acceptable too. Get the stick out your ass and stop arguing just to prove a non-point.
I’m just saying if my mom or gf calls me I’m usually gonna answer but I don’t want a new friend or acquaintance FaceTiming me all the time that’s too much. If I tell them that I’m busy and I would rather them text first and they don’t do that, I’m just gonna stop being friends with them. What’s so difficult to understand about that