Confessions on Yik Yak | I 100% do believe men should be paying for most things in a relationship. I 100% do NOT believe in asking a man for money lol I date people who buy gifts and pay for outings, I don't need to ask for $100 to get my nails done, I can pay for that lol

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I 100% do believe men should be paying for most things in a relationship. I 100% do NOT believe in asking a man for money lol I date people who buy gifts and pay for outings, I don't need to ask for $100 to get my nails done, I can pay for that lol

Anonymous 2w

As a man I would never be in a relationship with a woman who expects me to pay for everything. She’s a grown adult with a bank account, she can buy stuff too. I can pay for some things because I like being nice, but expecting me to pay for most or all things is excessive and ridiculous. I do not want to be used for my bank account

Anonymous 2w

i feel like these two statements are mutually exclusive

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Anonymous 2w

This is a whole paragraph for what?

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#2 2w

We would never be in a relationship so why do I care lol

Anonymous

#3 2w

They're not. I don't ask men for anything, I date people who are generous by their own nature

Anonymous 2w

Anyways I just read the paragraph and 1.) the post says "most things" 2.) I'm literally not interested in any man who would feel "used" because I'm not pulling out my credit card every time we go out, I think that's really pathetic and insecure. 3.) we are equals in a lot of ways, in other ways it's 90/10 or 60/40 or whatever for either of us. Paying for things we do together is a 90/10 thing.

Anonymous 2w

"Should be able" are key words here lol I am able, I work in finance and I date people who also are in finance. I'm not dating people who are going broke if I got 2 margaritas at chilis