Anonymous #2 2w

Uh no? Like no shit you should be showing self control but it’s the tug and pull, finding cool ways to subtly flirt and tease the other and the anticipation knowing we’re both on the same page that makes it hot.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Ok guess as long as you initiated it it’s ok

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Anonymous #2 2w

It doesn’t really matter who initiates it if both people are into what’s happening. If one of you isn’t respecting the other’s privacy or boundaries that’s the issue.

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Anonymous OP 2w

No it’s really only ok if the woman initiates it.

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Anonymous #2 2w

Disagree 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 2w

A man initiates something sexual he’s a horndog and only thinks about sex. Woman does it it’s ok. Men are shamed for their sexuality. Women aren’t

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Anonymous #2 2w

I get some dudes could be self conscious about coming off as a creep at the thought of misreading things and making a move when someone isn’t into it. But I’ve never thought a guy who read the room right or immediately backed off if their partner wasn’t feeling it is a “horndog.” And women are constantly shamed for expressing their sexuality. Everyone has it hard in different ways. The grass ain’t greener just cus it’s a different yard.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Not in today’s culture women are shamed

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Anonymous #2 2w

You may just not be looking for it cause you’re focused on other things or just decided it wasn’t there. Also this post is about how hot my boyfriend being turned on is and knowing he’s thinking about bending me over when we get home and how I’m looking forward to HIM initiating that so no one’s shaming over here 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 2w

No I’m looking I’m just ugly so I hate what I can’t have haha

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Anonymous #2 2w

I don’t think your looks are the issue here bud but may this kind of love find you one day

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Anonymous OP 2w

Looks are the issue haha they do matter

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