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I found recordings of myself showering, performing sexual acts without my knowledge, and a video of my boyfriend having sex with me while drunk on his computer, I don’t know how to confront him about this but I am deeply disturbed. What should I do?
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Anonymous 3w

don’t tell your bf. get the videos as evidence into the police station and file charges. break up with your bf and run

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Anonymous 3w

im not even commenting this just for your safety but the safety of other women who will date him after you. don’t enable creeps like this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I found the other girls and told them about it because they were just as disturbed as me! I have the videos in my hidden folder in my phone that I took as evidence, I’m just terrified on what to do next because we also have a child together 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Get a lawyer ASAP, protect yourself and your child. I would tell you to just run but idk how that would go with a kid or if your bf would retaliate because of that. And I don’t trust the cops to do what’s right especially with a kid involved. Please get a lawyer, call your local legal aid number for pro bono support if you can’t afford one

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Anonymous 3w

girls he went to school with, some girls he dated in the past before me, some from facetime, and he even had an album specifically for blowjobs that had us all in it, the whole situation is SICK

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I do have a lawyer, thank you! one of the girls I told confronted his parents luckily and I think she may be the karma he actually needs. I have the evidence she needs, just need to ask for it if she do want to press charges. I kinda am waiting for our lease to be over before I do anything and actively looking for a place next year :,)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Okay that’s good. So sorry you’re going through this beautiful. I hope you have all the support you need. No one deserves to be recorded without their consent and this is all on him. my DMs r on if u ever need to talk through this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

thank you so much and I agree, that’s why I told them as soon as I found out, turns out majority of them didn’t even know except one. That’s just disgusting and dehumanizing in my opinion, but as of now I’m just gathering as much evidence as possible before building a case.

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