from now on i’m conceptualizing dating + marriage like i’m an ivy league school and the men who want me have to prove why they’re a good fit for me. telling me you think i’m beautiful is not enough. why should i consider spending my life with you?
It’s good to filter out the time wasters. I’m at an Ivy and my program kills me to not have time to date
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Anonymous16w
i hate straight dating because of how unequal the relationships are. at least with other guys, it’s more equal and i don’t have to put up with “the man should always chase the woman” bullshit
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Anonymous#216w
it’s not even that i want him to chase me, it’s more that just i wanna make sure he wants to be with me for the right reasons. i don’t wanna be simply lusted over, i want to be loved.