Confessions on Yik Yak | all my bf does is complainnnnn it’s always something it’s always a bad day oh my feet hurt, my job sucks, wah wah WAHHH like STFU we are ALL going thru shit 😭😭😭

Yik Yak

Download

Join communities on Yik Yak Download

Confessions 3w

all my bf does is complainnnnn it’s always something it’s always a bad day oh my feet hurt, my job sucks, wah wah WAHHH like STFU we are ALL going thru shit 😭😭😭

Anonymous 3w

Keep in mind that when someone vents to you about the negatives, it usually means they are comforted by talking to you. They aren’t trying to bring you down or ask for solutions, they’re trying to recharge from your presence. You don’t have to solve his problems or offer any advice. Simply listen to him and say “i’m sorry your day was rough. Do you feel better now?” and then vent about your day to him. It goes both ways

Anonymous 3w

like he didn’t text me for like 7 hours bc he’s at work and it was BLISSFUL to not cater to a negative nancy and be left ALONE

Anonymous 3w

break up with him

Anonymous 3w

That bunny with the clock is here is spirit

Anonymous 3w

Fucking damn

Anonymous 3w

🤣

Anonymous

#3 3w

and that’s all completely fine. and i always let him know that he can vent to me. but when he’s everyday, every time we text, and then contradicts me for complaining, and doing the same thing that he does; vent about work and about my day

Anonymous

#3 3w

Something you can do if her seems to vent for too long is to set an example. Take the time to talk about your day and what you’re struggling with. When you’re done venting, say something like “thanks for listening

Anonymous

OP 3w

Ah, well that’s poor behavior from him, sorry to hear that

Anonymous

OP 3w

just break up with him at that point, no one wants a partner who describes not hearing from them as “blissful”