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i opened up to one of my closest college friends abt my recent sexual assault and she did nothing, sat there like i was telling her some random fact. i do think she wanted to help me but all i wanted was somebody to say "im sorry that happened to you" and
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Anonymous 4w

it hurts even more now because i almost never open up to people. and to be hit with no comfort or any reaction was really hard. and she's still one of my closest friends but i just don't think i can be around her rn and i feel bad about that. she texted me to say sorry for the way she reacted but it still wasn't comforting my experience of the assault if that makes sense. i want someone to sit with me and understand and say it will be okay but im too scared to tell anyone else in person because

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Anonymous 4w

sorry this is a lot i just needed to get this out somewhere.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

have such a non caring response hurt so bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

and i keep seeing what happened before i blacked out and i told her that too and she didn't fucking care or say anything. it was like i told her the most mundane thing and she responded in the most mundane way. and i want to forget but if i don't talk about it i cant. but now im too scared to tell anyone else

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