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Confessions 8w
I’ve attracted so many men that ghost and suck at communicating that I already don’t trust any guy that shows interest
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Anonymous 8w

In general guys are horrible communicators in a sense that most females seek

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Anonymous 8w

What do women want from us? When I text, it's wordy, I ask questions about themselves, I'm curious and I want to know more but then they straight up ghost me. It really sucks, I'd always been friends with more girls than guys but when I got to college it's like girls just hate me and I don't understand what changed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

That is sad. This really does apply to women as well. It just is apparent more so in men I believe. I feel you. I’m the same way. People are so scared of an intimate connection that they withhold it from them. It’s very sad.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

That's true, since I've been in college I've been able to acknowledge some of my trauma since being away from my parents and I feel so guilty if I weighed anyone down with that, and I've been catching myself stopping from mentioning things even related to it. So I guess the fear of connection probably doesn't help. I just miss having friends that I get along with

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