
I’m very curious as to how you phrased it bc that could be what’s making the difference here. If you’re genuinely bringing it up to her as “feedback” like a performance review, that’s crazy imo. But if you brought it up like “hey maybe we can try this next time”, it’d be different. Relationships aren’t just about communication, but the WAY you communicate too
I’m trying to imagine my bf talking about me in this manner and I’m so glad I can’t. Some women are real saints for tolerating relationships with men like you lol. She was crying and hasn’t let you touch her in two weeks and it hasn’t occurred to you that your approach was the problem? Then instead of reflecting on your attitude, you turned it into a universal problem because apparently your body count is in the millions and that’s how you know that “most women are fucking terrible in bed”.