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I think my bf just sa’d me. He didn’t ask for consent, but I had the chance to say no but I was too scared to say no and he knows I have problems standing up for myself, especially to men because of trauma. He apologized but I feel off.
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Anonymous 7w

If you think he did, he did

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Anonymous 7w

Are you ok?

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Anonymous 7w

Most assaults are by someone you know, which makes it even harder for people to trust themselves. You need to trust yourself and I know it’s hard but you need to even if that reveals an uncomfortable truth. Consent is consent, anything else is assault.

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Anonymous 7w

It’s okay I’m in a similar situation to you. My bf assaulted me too. I was 18 and drinking for the first time and he took advantage of that, and no we didn’t even discuss doing anything beforehand either. I still don’t know how to feel about it ❤️‍🩹 I’m hoping you can find some peace within yourself, I know how it feels to be so conflicted

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