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Been Hooking up with a girl from Tinder for a few weeks now who said she was 19 (bio said the same). I'm 20. she left her wallet at my place, I checked her ID out of curiosity and saw she was born in 2008. I cut things off immediately.
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Anonymous 15w

DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!! If you don’t and she decides to report you, you will be fucked.

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Anonymous 15w

yeah i'd take a pic of her id if that is legal

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Anonymous 15w

100% keep the photo. And express that you had become suspicious and checked ID. I doubt she will report you but some people are straight A-Holes. If possible have a friend be able to vouch for you. It should get dismissed immediately. Especially because it is considered a type of rape its weird af.

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Anonymous 15w

WHAT THE FUCK

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Anonymous 15w

Like everyone’s said, document everything but don’t engage further with her or escalate things. Block her and move on, and she’ll likely move on too, and it won’t even be an issue.

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Anonymous 15w

Everyone in the comment section is right but unfortunately given the fact that she is a minor it would still be his fault whether she lied about her age or not (depending on the state of course) he would still be liable for statutory rape and he can sue her in civil court for damages though

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Anonymous 15w

Unfortunately, despite the circumstances, the adult (you) is still at fault. Though your argument would probably hold at court with a reasonable jury

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Anonymous 15w

Tbh I always ask for an ID before I hook up with anybody - always say it’s for safety in case they decide to kidnap me and they laugh it off but it’s good for checking age too

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Anonymous 15w

What state? That’s very important.

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Anonymous 15w

DO NOT go to the police or tell anyone. You will be the one that gets in trouble. Google Zach Anderson. He went to jail and is a sex offender for 25 years and he was in your exact situation. A girl lied about her age on tinder.

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Anonymous 15w

Yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

but honestly you might be fine anyway regarding age of consent laws

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

If you have it, check the laws and go to the police. She has committed statutory rape.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

She was born during Obama's reign holy shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I have screenshots of her Tinder profile and the messages showing that she was the one who initiated things. I returned her wallet without making a scene and pretended like I didn’t know anything. After that, I unfriended her on all platforms and left it at that. This happened yesterday at 8pm ish 06/02/25

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Do not ever lose that evidence. Make copies. Because if she tries to come after you then you have some type of legal defense. Also report her to tinder.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

still have her number, and I’m thinking about texting her to confront her and get her to admit it, so I have even more evidence just in case

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

What you have is probably enough but if you do confront her you probably should go to the police before she does because that’s just angering the beast.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

i wouldn't do that. you might escalate things and she'll actually do something about it. just document everything and block her

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

Yes, but ideally if they just distance and move on then it won’t even get to that point, but keep those receipts forever!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

unfortunately even tho she lied about her age he would still be charged with statutory rape, not her. It’s messed up but that’s what would happen in court

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

DO NOT CONFRONT HER!

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 15w

All states protect men… He is literally fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

This isn’t about protecting men, given the fact the age difference is literally 3 years, she lied, and the age of consent is 16 in many states; there’s nothing for OP to be worried about tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 15w

I did, I’m just gonna leave it as is , I don’t think she will do anything, think of how many other people that person is hooking up with lying to off of tinder.

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