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I need advice I’m living with my ex boyfriend, we’ve said explicitly we’re in love with each other, we’ve been hooking up, and we’re having a great time, but we still haven’t had the bf/gf talk How long should I wait before initiating the convo myself?
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Anonymous 14h

if you want to have the convo now then why not just bring it up? Just a casual “so what are we because we definitely arent exes”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I guess I’m kinda hoping he’ll bring it up. I also dk if it’s too soon yet to bring it up or not

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

communication is key and timing is rarely ever perfect - just do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

He won’t be back for a few hours bc he’s doing a clinic with his sports team. Ik timing isn’t perfect but would it be terrible to do it while he’s like sweaty tired and sore?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

ask him when a good time to talk would be

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