
here's my perspective as someone who prefers more than one partner: it's very complicated if you're serious. i think in the society we live in, dating more than one person is easiest if you're young and having fun. once you're an adult and have to consider what's in everyone's economic best interest, it's hard to make it work. it requires too much sacrifice. not all three of you will have the best career or housing opportunities in one city. + the legal complications of starting a family