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Thinking about how much of a ho my bf use to be genuinely disgusts me sometimes & makes me feel sick
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Anonymous 1w

This is like Exactly How I feel when talking to girls and realizing she’s not gf material. Heart drops, stomach twists

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Anonymous 1w

break up with them. It’s not that bs about if you love me you accept me and all my faults. That’s immature thinking. Like, you have the right to feel safe and fully compatible with someone. If something about heir past bothers you to the point you are disgusted you shouldn’t be with that person or feel that you have to just because of “love”. There’s a better match to you out there I PROMISE

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Anonymous 1w

Have you talked to him about it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

ofc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I like this, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

exactly 😭 like how could you be intimate with THAT many people.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

For sure. Personally Im a virgin and I could not be with anyone that has a body count above maybe two. I don’t think that makes me a prude. It’s about what makes me comfortable. Relationships are a partnership b it unfortunately it’s easy to push aside your boundaries bc you want to make the other peon happy. You have a commitment to yourself first before any other person.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

What were his thoughts?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

he said he was very insecure & used sex to cope but is ashamed of his past

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That sucks and is honorable and whatever ut just like it makes you uncomfortable ther is someone else who Will be okay with it. You both deserve that. And sometimes messed up people can start a new chapter with other messed up People bc they get each other. Like two people Meeting at an AA meeting and then getting married. They can understand each others struggles and goals better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

yeah of course I’m sure he can meet someone who doesn’t care about his past, personally mixed w other red flags I’ve seen he’s just too lustful for my liking. I can’t be with someone like that long term.

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