Issa trap guys. Everytime I do, she gets the ick and either sabotages the relationship or ghosts me. Meanwhile gf’s I (openly) wouldn’t lift a finger for have begged me to stay while I left bc I didn’t care. That’s why, I disagree with that thesis. Although I still WANT to, I DON’T bc I don’t wanna be eternally single. Being a good bf isn’t hard or complicated; it doesn’t need to be taught, just tolerated. I’d love to be a good bf. But nobody wants me as a good bf, only as a crappy one.

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