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Not really a confession, but more a question of a confession: I have my sister’s rapist’s death certificate framed on my wall. How big of a red flag is that?
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Anonymous 3w

Green flag. As long as like she cool with it lol

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Anonymous 3w

I’d say it’s a red flag. I get sticking up for your sister but showcasing a human’s death isn’t stellar and it indicates a readiness to carry baggage. No judgment or anything, just answering since you asked!

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Anonymous 3w

not a red flag at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I mean, I haven’t told her, but given that she hates the guy I doubt she’d mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No, I understand where you’re coming from completely, and I do appreciate the feedback. Do you think there’s any way to make it a bit closer to a yellow flag? Either in presentation or explanation?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Hmm, I would say any kind of display keeps it in the red flag category. You can keep it if it helps you, but showing it changes the vibe

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Hmmmm, that’s valid. Admittedly I don’t keep it around/display it to help me, but to showcase my hatred for dear ‘ole dad. But I suppose that’s fair enough that no amount of lipstick can pretty that up, so fair enough. Appreciate the insight all the same, though!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

No doubt! I hope you and your sister are able to heal and leave that asshole dad of yours in the past where he belongs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

The plot thickens, if it’s dad. I was wondering how you would get a stranger’s death certificate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Yeah, no, can’t get a stranger’s death certificate afaik, but some fucking studmuffin put a bullet’s worth of justice straight into that bald bastard’s chrome dome, and since that much is printed on government paper, I want that paper on my wall to be the longest-lasting testament to his life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Wow. If you think it’s a problem to have it on the wall, maybe put it in a photo album? At least now it’s a conversation piece….

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