Anonymous #1 22h

and that’s why my feelings were hurt

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Anonymous #1 22h

That’s it!! A lot of ppl think situationships owe you emotional and mental stability but they’re literally there for a good time and that’s IT

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Anonymous #2 22h

For not understanding that at its most basic, it’s just a sex thing and not much else?

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Anonymous OP 22h

Did they think they where the only situationship

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Anonymous #2 22h

Tbf, I empathize with your plight. Expecting feelings to not be involved when it’s about sex is unreasonable too. At the end of the day, it’s all about communication to address these feelings when they start developing and figuring out a way to deal with it together.

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Anonymous #3 22h

If someone wants something more exclusive then they gotta communicate it as something more. Situationships owe you nothing other than safe sex. It’s unfortunate ppl are mislabeling dating and talking stages as situationships. Yes feelings change with sex, but knowing that what you’re going to get involved with is going to lead to nothing more is important in not experiencing actual heart break.

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Anonymous #1 22h

Yes! My biggest issue is people using the label of situationship, not realizing it’s supposed to be noncommittal and purely/mostly sexual. These ppl are getting themselves hurt by not expressing clear boundaries or communicating and it’s sad to see. If they experience feelings, cut it off or talk it out and see if something can come up. But a person shouldn’t be upset when what they wanted doesn’t happen

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