it’s just frustrating. like i get it being obese is uncomfortable. I’M still obese! but they haven’t even TRIEDDD to lose weight. they don’t count calories, they don’t eat vegetables, they don’t weigh or measure anything. so i just feel like shit to see them gloat because they think it’s been soo easy for me to drop the weight when it hasn’t been. it’s been an entire lifestyle change for me! ugh. i know i’m being an asshole about this but i don’t care