Anonymous #1 23h

Really isn’t 😭 I don’t feel this way about any other girl but HER.

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Anonymous #2 23h

I’d have to respectfully disagree, just based on my own feelings.

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Anonymous OP 23h

then that means you’re bisexual with a strong preference for men

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Anonymous OP 23h

There’s at least some kind of bi-curiosity going on. No shame in it lol

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Anonymous #4 23h

How can I be bi if its just one girl ( btw she’s masc )

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Anonymous OP 22h

Her being masc doesn’t take away from the fact she’s still a woman. Obviously we can’t exactly read your mind but there’s nothing straight about liking another woman even if it’s just her. Just because I’m a gay man doesn’t mean imma like every guy out there

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Anonymous OP 22h

yes- get your stuff together first and figure out your sexuality because i guarantee you she doesn’t want to be your exception or your experiment

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Anonymous #4 22h

Ughh I know I don’t want that for her either, I will,but when ready what’s the move ?

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Anonymous OP 22h

IF* ready. if you decide to still go around saying you’re straight, don’t even bother.

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Anonymous #4 22h

Ur not hearing me out

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Anonymous #4 21h

I completely understand what u guys are saying and coming from, and I’ll take that into consideration. At the same time I don’t want to label myself as bi simply because I have feelings for this one girl. If she doesn’t feel the same way about me I can accept it but I also don’t see myself pursuing or having a crush on another girl. My feelings are specifically for her, and I think there’s a difference btwn being attracted to one person and identifying as bisexual.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Human sexuality can be weird, especially when you go into questioning for the first time. My advice is don't worry so much about trying to force a label on yourself to try and describe something that does not fit your own unique experience. I think you might have a few things to work out with yourself still, but that's ultimately going to be your journey to go on. Don't listen to the people trying to label it for you, coming from a bisexual person.

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Anonymous #5 21h

But to #4's point, it does feel shitty to be someone's experiment. If you really like this girl in the same way you felt about other romantic interests in the past, I'm not telling you not to pursue, but really take some time to reflect on yourself and how you feel about her first. This is presumptuous, but you seem a little defensive about the possibility of being a little queer. I would take your time with this and not rush into something if you might still have inner conflicts to work out.

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Anonymous #5 21h

I’m not defensive at all I just don’t want to misrepresent the community

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Anonymous OP 19h

Okay. I hope I haven't come off as rude at all, because I am genuinely sympathetic with your situation. I wouldn't worry about misrepresenting the community; the point of having the community is to find something that represents you. But I stand by my advice to not stress over labels. I wish you and this girl the best with whatever happens going forward.

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Anonymous #5 19h

Oh no ur fine, thanks !

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