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i got asked to be a gf two weeks ago and i said yes bc i rlly like him but he asked me in a normal conversation. like no flowers, no gifts, no sign, nothing. am i the asshole for being slightly disappointed by this?
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Anonymous 7w

I wouldn’t call you an asshole but I do think it would be weird to be upset with him over that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

If it really matters to you, ask to redo it

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Anonymous 7w

yeah maybeee, i feel like that moment passed already

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Anonymous 7w

i reacted good!! i was still happy bc at the end of the day i was always gonna say yes no matter how he asked

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

that’s fair, i feel selfish abt it. it’s just he’s my first bf so i always pictured that moment differently if that makes sense? but im not upset just slightly disappointed if anything

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Anonymous 7w

i understand that, that’s why i’m mixed abt it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I’m gonna be honest I’ve only seen stuff like that happening in romance movies 😭 maybe it happens with guys who already know their partner well enough to know she likes that sort of thing but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

and yk that’s so fair. and this is my first bf so idk what’s the norm for any of this 😭 ty for explaining that to me. again im just happy he asked me so it’s okay :) and he’s already gotten me flowers before too

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