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Confessions 1w
I miss my ex a lot. I’m afraid to admit it. I put this tough front up! Shit breaks my heart. But it’s like I’m fake-healed & thriving and masking the “pain”. 15 upvotes and I’m gonna call her at this hour to let her know we dated for 4 yrs*
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Anonymous 1w

Those are all what ifs. Either she is most likely not interested (as you mentioned…she doesn’t reach out to you) or she is not wanting to get hurt again or smth. Why did you guys break up? And if it was her who broke up with you than maybe that should be a sign? Chase it if you have a chance, otherwise don’t waste your time loving someone who can’t love you back right now. There is a plan for your future and you just can’t see that yet so trust that it’s all going to work out

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Anonymous 1w

block her move on. always a step up. fresh starts are never bad

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Anonymous 1w

no answer, and it’s 3:50 where she is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

but what if that is the woman I feel who “got away?” what if that’s the only woman I’d ever love that deep again?…to prevent myself from every feeling such pain again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! thank you. Im not stuck or dwelling on wanting us back; that pain has left me. The idea is there though. Last spoke to her last week, but it’s been maybe 2 months before we last caught up. She still answers time to time, but appears standoffish and not excited to hear from me. We broke up bc the last 2 years of the relationship were long distance. We both were busy in grad school. So only saw one another 2-4 times out the year

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you may be right about feeling that hurt part again because she still brings up the past. We’ve both hurt one another but she is still so stuck in the past as if I haven’t matured and grown and changed for the better

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