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My partner left me and a part of me feels shallow because if we get back together and he’s had sex with someone else I feel I’ll be completely turned off by the idea of having sex with him at all. But again I have no clue if we will get back together
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Anonymous 16w

Then move on, he’s done it, why would you want someone back that might leave again

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Anonymous 16w

maybe just work on letting him go over time then

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Because I can’t even fight for him or the relationship I’m leaving the country for 6 months and lost every support system I had when I get back if things maybe work out I’ll be salty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Are you studying abroad? Go enjoy whatever is your doing. Can’t worry about what might be there when you get back, 99% chance it’ll be exactly the same, him gone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Yea I am studying abroad, I’m trying not to worry but I can’t help it, 2 year relationship gone and though I know he loves me we’ve had so many conversations about everything and I have no doubt he probably will have sex with someone else while I’m gone but it’s still just difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

As someone who just went through this I hope it’s a different experience than me. Go and enjoy the Study Abroad experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

Thank you 🙏 I’m gonna try and work through it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Just don’t let it ruin where you’re going, hopefully somewhere fun

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