Anonymous #2 7w

I did this. Downloaded Tinder and just lost it to a random guy I never talked to again after. I regret it deeply. It’s honestly not all that great cause you just feel used after. Then I just did it with random guys to get that experience other people constantly would talk about. I promise you that it’s worth waiting even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment.

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Anonymous #2 7w

Be happy and rejoice, humans don’t mature fully till 30 anyway

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Anonymous #2 7w

Definitely wait and if you can, share that experience with someone who is also a virgin

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Anonymous #2 7w

I did this. Went on tinder but I was picky on who I wanted to sleep with and told them I wanted to get to know them before we hooked up. Don’t regret it but I probably would’ve if I just said yes to any guy immediately

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Anonymous #2 7w

You’re not too old. And virginity is bullshit anyways. Have sex only when you want to

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Anonymous #2 7w

A daily reminder that 70% of adults are exposed to HPV

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Anonymous #4 7w

thx 🫶, it’s just something I’m prty insecure about 😅. like sometimes it feels like I can’t be normal until I’ve had it

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Anonymous #2 7w

definitely wait. i didn’t and wish i did

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Anonymous #2 7w

I wish I had listened to the people who told me to wait. You are not less desirable for it. If anyone makes you feel that way, then they are not for you. Friends and partners alike. There is no “normal” when it comes to sex because every single person has different experiences. This is just yours. While it might feel bad now, you will be so so grateful for waiting. Especially waiting for a person who makes you feel safe and loved. You are worthy of that. 💗

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Anonymous #7 7w

Absolutely! Reminder, If you’re sexually active get regular testing. Have those uncomfortable conversations with your partners! You are not gross for contracting something either. You are only gross if you aren’t transparent and/or diligent about it 🫶🏻

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Anonymous #4 7w

Well said

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Anonymous #1 7w

I hate to be that guy, but I am just that guy. Where did you get this “mature at 30” information? It has been consistently documented that all parts of the brain and body are fully grown and mature by around age 26. If you are referring to social maturity, it is both arbitrary and ongoing; meaning it does not develop in a straight line, nor is it something that can ever be “fully” achieved.

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Anonymous #11 7w

Sorry, I am compulsive about a couple, random things and the idea of social maturity just so happens to one of them

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Anonymous #10 7w

if it was that insignificant ppl wouldn’t have regrets

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Anonymous #10 7w

Sex is fun but it’s also the deepest connection you can have with someone. It’s on a pedestal for a reason.

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Anonymous #12 7w

I regret eating a spicy chicken sandwich. Your argument is invalid

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Anonymous #13 7w

To who?

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Anonymous OP 7w

Probably not the “deepest connection”. This is what I’m talking about, blowing it out of proportion. I’d argue fiercely that I have a MUCH deeper connection with close friends, family, and my own son, than any level of connection with a person who mutually agreed to touch our private parts together.

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Anonymous #10 7w

You have no understanding of sex, its meaning, or what it actually does to one’s soul. I hope you soften your heart before your to calloused to care.

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Anonymous #10 7w

You’re clearly desensitized. Sex is super important to pair bonding and is the most intimate thing you can do with someone.

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