yeah, committing a boundary violation against someone you claim to love does usually set off a physiological reaction
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Anonymous9w
Same, went thru my ex’s texts with the girl he’d been cheating with while he slept beside me. It’s been 12 yrs and I can still remember how badly my hands were still shaking while I wrote a damn essay for him to wake up to.
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Anonymous#19w
I mean you don’t actually know that it was a boundary violation, everyone’s boundaries are different.
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Anonymous#39w
homie why do you think they did it while the other person was asleep
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Anonymous#39w
i think OP is capable of speaking for themself btw, you don’t need to do so on their behalf—if this was consensual, they could say so. you, however, don’t actually know that it Wasn’t a boundary violation
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Anonymous#19w
Yeah im saying we don’t know either way so dont assume ?