Unfortunately, I don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
I had a chalant/obsessive man and he turned out to be way too much. So idk I’m kinda in the middle about this. Affection and flower are good but I can’t spare that much energy bro
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Anonymous17h
I SECOND THIS
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Anonymous17h
I yearn for this
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Anonymous17h
You lost me on the first one sorry
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Anonymouslightbluehater17h
yeah yeah we get it 🙄 go watch glee
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Anonymous#117h
Make me
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Anonymouslightbluehater17h
You’re not dominant. So what I’m sure there plenty of women that like subs
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Anonymous#317h
There’s a way to do it without being too much
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AnonymousOP17h
Yeah it was funny for me to comment so I did
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Anonymouslightbluehater17h
hey if you’re so sub, you’d listen to me and watch glee
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Anonymous#117h
That’s what brats are for
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Anonymouslightbluehater17h
i’m a brat…be more brat. #bratsummer
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AnonymousOP17h
Yeah he needed attention every few hours and also constant reassurance and I just couldn’t do it. And he still cried over his ex fwb
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Anonymous#117h
Sorry
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Anonymous#316h
Yeah that’s not what being obsessive and nonchalant is
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AnonymousOP16h
attention every few hours and reassurance is quite literally obsessed i think you mean you want him to be “possessive” over you; possessive is like you’re mine and no one else’s while obsessive is talk all the time and reassurance along with never leaving you alone
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Anonymous#415h
Yeah he was all of those things. He was possessive which I liked a lot, but he was also obsessive and needy, which just ended up draining all of my energy whenever I spent time with him
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Anonymous#315h
that’s what i’m saying OP doesn’t want obsessive she wants possessive and it’s two completely different things