Anonymous #1 8w

i like it too, just be casual wit it, like you friends with them alrdy kinda, if they aint vibing move onto the next one

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Anonymous #1 8w

I really just talk about nay and everything and don’t care what I say bc we’re strangers and half the time the conversation doesn’t move past the night we talk. So it’s like free convo practice. And the person either matches the vibe or I leave the conversation.

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Anonymous OP 8w

I see. Often I find it doesn’t go very much of anywhere and I just end up feeling let down at how difficult it is to feel connected to another human or hold any sort of conversation

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Anonymous #1 8w

I don’t think I’m very likeable too and that might be a lot of the problem, it’s probably a lot easier and makes a lot more sense when people actually like you and it’s easy to keep them around

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Anonymous #1 8w

If you’re a meh looking guy it’s just depressing really. I can imagine how it’s totally an opposite experience if you’re a woman

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Anonymous #1 8w

I have to stop being so negative energy all the time huh

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Anonymous #1 8w

How do they know what you look like?

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Anonymous OP 8w

Well sometimes on tinder or you end up sending a photo on snap or somewhere else. Idk They don’t always but yeah idk

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Anonymous #1 8w

Probably can kind of tell just by how I talk anyway sometimes and my demeanor

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Anonymous #1 8w

You think the way you talk makes you ugly? Oh baby yeah we need to work on that negativity.

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Anonymous OP 8w

It’s not that I think the way I talk makes me ugly, I just think people can tell by the way I talk that I am not very confident or interesting or fun and not worth spending much time on or putting effort into talking with. I think that’s relatively understandable, yk people can tell what kind of person you are fairly quickly and what energy you’re bringing

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