The reason I fake is because I can’t orgasm whatsoever, and when I tell a guy that they always think they have the magic penis that can change my biology. But they don’t. So then they just get mad and frustrated that they can’t make it happen. So I just fake it. Easier for me and him
I get you! Sex still feels good but “getting there” just isn’t something I can do, whether alone or with someone. Guys I date seem to take this as a challenge rather than a fact of my life and then they get mad when their fantasy of giving me my first orgasm doesn’t come true. So I just pretend so they can live their fantasy
I’m not really disappointed, it’s just more like a fact of life. I don’t know why you seem to think it’s some horribly burden that I just throw away all sex, masturbation, and any hope of a relationship for. Like yeah, let me just refuse to date or experience pleasure because I can’t orgasm. How silly