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I hate how my S/A and what I’ve gone through is completely invalidated the minute I say I’m a man.
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Anonymous 3w

It’s a horrible stigma, but you aren’t alone and I see you bro 🔥

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Anonymous 3w

What you experienced is validated, I’m sorry others have made you feel like it wasn’t.

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Anonymous 3w

I will genuinely throw hands for u sir

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Anonymous 3w

It’s not at least not to me! Men can absolutely be victims and survivors too and they deserve to be given a voice and validation too! Sending you safety and healing. Sorry this happened to you!

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Anonymous 3w

In hs I lost my virginity at a party where I didn’t know anyone but the girl I was there with and when she walked me to my car to drive home (she had been drinking and planned to stay the night, I was sober to drive) she wanted to do it in my car and after like 3 times of me saying I felt uncomfortable cause she was drunk she said that if I didn’t she would tell all her guys friends at the party I tried to rape her in my car, and she knew where I lived so that’s how it went lol

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Anonymous 3w

It’s a horrible thing. I’m so sorry. From one survivor to another, we’re here for you

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Anonymous 3w

Been there brotha. Stay strong you ain’t alone

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Anonymous 3w

I see that happen a lot and I’m sorry some of us don’t take it seriously. Just know people do care, and those that don’t weren’t good people anyway :)

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Anonymous 3w

That’s so fucked— I’m sorry

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Anonymous 3w

I feel you bro, I’m in the same boat unfortunately

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Anonymous 3w

Your experience is valid ❤️ wishing you peace and healing

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Anonymous 3w

i fully support you. i wish more men spoke up so this subject so it would be taken more seriously and have more awareness. regardless of your gender taking advantage or making someone uncomfortable is very serious. i can’t imagine what you’ve been through but i will continue to advocate for men’s mental health and sa

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Thanks G.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ofc bro, enjoy the evening and don’t let it get you down

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

You’re very sweet friend. Thanks.

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Anonymous 3w

Ik the struggle man. Love yourself and put you first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

I used to tell it as a funny story cause I had never stopped to consider that would be sa cause I’m a guy but yrs later a gf of mine started bawling when she heard the story and it wasn’t til she told me to switch the genders that I was like damn that was fucked up

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

i normally feel alone as a male SA victim, seeing others being vocal about it makes me feel less isolated. thanks everyone for your voices

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