I’d want to make a good first impression so I’d probably pay it, but long term I think splitting the bill is a sign of mutual respect and equality and I view it as important to us being compatible in a relationship
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Anonymous#11d
For me I’d always pay on the first date, but make it clear before we go on a second, if we do a second date, that I believe it’d be fair to either split or flip flop back and forth in future.
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Anonymous#21d
I think that’s a great system. The way I think about it for myself is that if they are not comfortable splitting the bill, that indicates an incompatibility in worldview and/or personality that means we should not date.